Renewal
When something doesn't go well, you have to have the detachment necessary to renew, try the options that life offers and determine new directions for your existence. To achieve this, you need to abandon the constraints, be less selective and don't value so much that it didn't work; look all the time who you truly are and not being exactly what you became, with the social roles that you assume; rescue the essence and release the wills, to leave in search of a better life.
It is not always possible to stop doing what's bothering us. In this case, you have to find a different way to face the obstacles.